For families & teachers
They're sad and won't say why
Sometimes a hug helps; other times, some time on their own.
What you can do
- 1Ask what they'd like: a hug, quiet company or some time on their own.
- 2Respect their answer and stay available.
- 3Later, offer to tell it through a drawing or a song.
You could say
“I'm here. Would you like a hug, or would you rather have some quiet time?”
In class
A quiet corner children can go to without having to explain why.
Lila’s Planet is an educational resource. It is not therapy or treatment. If you're worried about how a child is doing, talk to their doctor, the school's support team or a children's mental health professional.