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For families & teachers

They get frustrated when something doesn't work out

Frustration eases sooner when someone names it and stays close.

What you can do

  1. 1Name what they feel: “It's annoying when it doesn't work.”
  2. 2Suggest a short break before trying again.
  3. 3Break the task into one small step they can do.

You could say

“It's hard. Let's rest for a moment and try again, little by little.”

In class

Have a “pause corner” and celebrate the attempts, not just the results.

Lila’s Planet is an educational resource. It is not therapy or treatment. If you're worried about how a child is doing, talk to their doctor, the school's support team or a children's mental health professional.